I made a quiet resolution on New Year's Eve to do better in 2019. To pace myself better, to build a routine that I could use to pace myself better, and to finish unfinished projects.
One of the things I've done is I've started by...cleaning the cats' box every morning, instead of doing it at night if I have the energy (typically, I didn't). The cats, dog, kids, and spouse are much happier, and it doesn't take a whole lot of energy in the mornings.
That said, I do an internal check of energy levels and review what must be done every day when I wake up, and some days, I skip that morning step because there are other things that I have to do that will be needing the energy I used to clean that box.
Sometimes that box doesn't get cleaned for a couple days.
Sometimes the dishes get done, sometimes they don't.
But the kids are always clean and fed, and homework's always done. Dinner's on the table (and usually on time), and there are snacks for the kids. Even when I'm dealing with a major flareup of the stupid chronic fatigue syndrome (which sometimes just hits, even without me having danced too close to one of my known triggers, like last week).
And I've finished some projects.
I finished a set of hand warmers I was working on for myself (think knitted, ribbed tube, with a hole for the thumb, that goes from a couple inches up my forearm to the first joint of my fingers), and repurposed a project I'd started for the imp into a set of similar at his request. That's finished, too. I've got a sweater on needles for me, and an afghan for the imp, and a silver-gray shawl from silky acrylic yarn the pixie has squealed and claimed for herself. I've got other projects planned, but nothing actually on needles at the moment. And I won't start them until I finish my unfinished projects.
Unlike my writing. That comes as it comes. Yes, I am working on finishing stuff, but...sometimes different things kinda...butt in line.
First draft of Gods and Monsters is done, and I'm working on the
revision. I'll also be working on finishing another novel I've had in
the works for a couple of years. I'll be revising the first two parts,
then finishing the third. I'll probably publish it serially as Kindle
editions, then have an omnibus edition in Kindle and dead tree.
(Yes, I
have started the next Liquid Diet Chronicles book. And yes, I'll finish
that one, first. I think.)
And I never have clue one about what's going to come out when I sit down to write and DON'T have something I'm already working on open. So, it could be related to an ongoing series, or it could be a ferret on a ceiling fan.
But I am working on finishing projects sitting unfinished, at the moment. Really. I am.
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Good news! And those small steps will find you back in control sooner rather than later.
ReplyDeleteI hope so. I really hope so. Because I wound up taking a nap today that I didn't choose to take because of this crud.
DeleteI am perfectly content that my "to do" list is much longer than my "have done" list, as long as I keep tackling the "to do" list...from time to time.
ReplyDeleteWe got most of the public areas of the house mostly clean on Sunday. And I'm still paying for it two days later.
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